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  • My extended family has worked for companies in the Disney umbrella and as part of one’s retirement package, gets free admission to Disney parks for them and family members. They get half price hotels in the area.

    My sister and brother in law make real good money. Over a third of a mil a year between the two of them. They said it was pretty much breaking the bank/almost out of reach. With all that saved, it was about $10k per person for the 5 day trip. $40k vacation. Coulda bought a car.





  • I might be misunderstanding this concept but it seems like extra work, or a recipe for an insecure mess that could become difficult to maintain.

    I run elk stack and log basically everything which has created a centralized point for observability. This lets me granularly investigate and thereby control the state of all of my networks services.

    It’s a little ram hungry, but I’ve got some overhead.



  • Yeah… No

    I didn’t mean RFC Base32.

    I meant human-safe alphabets.

    Base58 or Crockford Base32 that intentionally remove I, L, O, and 1 (which is distinct from “base 32”).

    RFC Base32 still hits the exact problem I’m ranting about.

    To be clear the (vanilla) base32 version of the aforementioned string:

    “I dont fucking know lots of lllllIIIIIIlllIII etc”

    Outputs:

    “JEQGI33OOQQGM5LDNNUW4ZZANNXG65ZANRXXI4ZAN5TCA3DMNRWGYSKJJFEUSSLMNRWESSKJEBSXIYY=”

    You can use cyberchef to check for yourself.

    This does not solve the problem.

    I meant what I’d said: base 58.



  • Jfc you just do both at the same time.

    “Hey, I’m reaching out with regard to ticket 27472. I’ll need to remote into your device. You’ll see a notification that it’s happening. I just wanted to give you a heads up that the notification is expected behavior. Let me know if you have any questions!”

    One message.

    Do work.

    “Hey again, the .zip is benign. Thanks for reaching out! Feel free to open it.”

    They respond “thanks sorry I was at lunch”

    “👍”

    Never speak again.



  • Did you talk about this with your therapist? Bc you should.

    My old therapist would refer to frustration as a resource we hoarde. We dump our frustration into a little water bottle, and when we’re not using adaptive coping mechanisms, we table it. But then later something frustrating happens (like your webcam experience), and though it is (truly) a minor setback, you’re stuck with this huge reaction. You got a stop hoarding your frustrations and learn to dump that water bottle out before it overflows.

    This imagery is for me helpful because it helps me understand some disproportionate reactions I may have, and also quite clearly doesn’t shy away from negative emotion. Get angry, hell yeah. When it’s… Adaptive. This wasn’t adaptive.