Can you guys suggest some reliable and secure selfhosted IM service? I’m kinda in a very bad spot right now, so any centralized messaging wouldn’t really work. And yeah, state sponsored mass surveillance is a question of concern. Sorry for odd phrasing, just really at a loss.
I heard of matrix, XMPP (heard good things about snikket.org), SimpleX and even some IRC wizardry over TOR. And I actually tried matrix (synapse server), but found it not reliable enough - sometimes skips a notification, periodic troubles with logging in, weird lack of voice calls on mobile client, and some other irritating, tiny hiccups. I’m open to any suggestion, really, even open to trying matrix once again. Just, please, describe why you think one option is better than the other.
And just FYI, use case is simply texting with friends and family, while avoiding state monitoring. Nothing nefarious
There is probably something wrong with your setup, if Synapse has these problems.
I’ve been running Synapse for years, including voice/videocalls and even video conferences.
That’s definitely possible. But the weirdest thing was the inconsistency of every issue. As an example - voice calls worked on the web client, but didn’t on mobile. Client issue perhaps, tho I tried, like, almost every mainstream mobile client